Toxic Attachments

Today I was walking my fur babies, deep in thought with the day’s events, it was a crazy day, I needed to deal with so many different situations today,

Due to my choice of exploring my personal spiritual path, and “clearing” all the old trauma, pain, emotional baggage and all-around bad juju that has attached itself to me through this crazy year, I saw this tree.

I am a nature lover and I am in daily awe on how amazing this planet of ours is, so here I was walking and working through all these thoughts in my head, micro-arranging my mind’s filing structure on what still needs to be done this year before the new year starts, I realized something ..

Now I know this is not a subject that everyone wants to talk about, or their believes are not the same as mine, but hear me out.

When we start our personal spiritual journey, whatever it is that is personal for you, we need to dig deep down to all those hard-to-reach places inside our darkest deepest parts of our minds to clear those energies as explained above,

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But, coming back to the tree,

This tree is a big healthy tree, obviously many years old, on this tree’s trunk a delicious monster manifested itself and attached, clearly living off this healthy tree, the tree itself is not bothered by this imposter plant that grows and feeds from it, it simply co-exists with it, both living it’s best life.

Now this is how amazing nature is, there is no ego or threat to either one of the plants, they support and help each other regardless of what the situation is, the smaller delicious monster obviously knows that it has secured itself well enough that this big tree will always support it.  Very clever really.

The one thing I noticed though was the root structure of this delicious monster and how it managed to manifest itself exactly where it was. Now the reason I am talking about this tree is because I saw another message in this vision.

We as people have been put together to co-exist, work and spend time with several different people a day, whether it’s our families, work colleges or friends we spend time with them, we share energy with them.

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In my case I understand that we are spiritual beings having a human experience and not a human having a spiritual/light experience, with that comes one more thing, being a spiritual/light being, we must remember that other “beings” will attach itself to our energy bodies as well to survive, it does not really matter how we believe but this is a true fact, there are unfortunately bad entities just as there are good ones, like many other things in life.

So how do these attach to us? You might ask?

When we have bad relationships, trauma or just toxic people in our lives, yes, I know that it’s not our choices but they do happen, these bad entities utilize the “weaker” person (the one causing all the drama, pain and suffering) to piggy-back on and then affect your life.

In turn when you “release” yourself from that “person” they leave behind something called toxic umbilical cords that are attached to your aura, a spiritual person can see these invisible cords, and that’s when they usually will suggest a spiritual cord cleansing and cutting session.

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We tend to become very tired, drained, emotionally unstable, aggressive and one sided when we have these attachments and need to get them cleared.

Now my post is not trying to tell anyone that they need to find a spiritual master and go for immediate clearing, just consider that just as this tree, cords can attach to you, and the only way to release yourself is to clear them.

No all-mental health issues have to do with a medical situation, it could very well be a toxic attachment that you are just not aware of.

I hope this helps someone dealing with a hard time, and just not understanding why.

If anyone has any questions regarding this post, I am always available to assist.

Blessings xx



  1. Very well penned! It does take some work to free ourselves of those toxic attachments, and sometimes it takes us a while to see them as toxic and see the need to break free


    1. madiej says:

      Thank you so much for your comment, yes in my opinion these “attachments” camouflage’s itself so well, when it comes to us as “earth angel’s ” our sense of sensitivity and respect to others is so great that we don’t see those attachments until they are really toxic, which then turns into a very big and emotional situation to rid ourselves from them.

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      1. It certainly is hard to rid ourselves from them, and doing so can come at great cost. But in the long run, eliminating those toxic people from our worlds is deeply healing and well worth any material cost. I had gotten involved in such a relationship and it was hard letting go, but I’m much more mentally healthy having done so

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      2. madiej says:

        I agree with you, sorry for you having to go through such a situation, letting go like you send is not easy but when you can manage to see the true face of what is written on the wall and manage to break free .. true healing can start and with that healing comes new life ..


  2. Jeff Flesch says:

    Creating the possibility for this clearing is so important. Hard work and painful, yet what we get back is a space full of aliveness. An energy that is filled with love and understanding, compassion and empathy. What a lovely post, Madie. Thank you for sharing this with us. ☺️


    1. madiej says:

      Yes creating the space to clear is so true to be important, I agree with you, It is hard work and very painful, but clearing the old bad energy and detaching form all those “plugs” into our spirit bodies does bring new love and understanding. Thank you for your message Jeff, I always appreciate your input.


  3. This is some of the toughest and most important work we can do for ourselves. Thank you for this. 💜


    1. madiej says:

      I agree with you, in the same breath it is so so important … my pleasure, I am glad it resonated with you.


  4. Loved your observations about tree and attachments.In Costa Rica we have something called “Matapalo” It’s a tree killer and if it takes over..the original tree will be drained of its force and die. Very important to know who you allow to attach to and vice versa:)


    1. madiej says:

      Hi Karima, yes, I actually took that picture in Panamá the other day, I did not know what it was called though, Thank you for that insight. Now I understand what it is as well, on a spiritual level that is what happens to our spirit too if we don’t deal with these uninvited attachments, coming to ourselves we need to be super careful and be a little selfish on who we allow to attach, we will be killing our own spirit by “feeding” everyone else’s if not aware or careful.


  5. Asif Balouch says:

    I enjoyed reading this and
    I appreciate your hard work!. I know You have an impressive grip on this topic!.


    1. madiej says:

      Thank you Asif, I am glad you are enjoying my content.


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